Daily Devotional: Christian Dating

As children of God, we are called to follow a path that aligns with the teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ. Today, let’s delve into an important topic regarding our relationships – particularly, our romantic relationships.

There's a verse in the Bible, 2 Corinthians 6:14, from the English Standard Version, that provides guidance on this: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"

Let's unpack this verse together. The phrase "unequally yoked" refers to the practice of yoking two unequal animals together, which was forbidden in ancient Israel. In the context of relationships, it implies that believers shouldn't enter into a binding relationship with non-believers.

Why so? Non-believers, though they might be dear to us, are not in the same spiritual state. They are, as the verse says, "in darkness" because they have not accepted the saving grace of Christ. They don't have the same eternal destination as us, which makes the partnership unequal.

Now, some may argue that love transcends faith. But let's remember, love does not exist in a vacuum. It exists within the bounds of our faith, morals, and values. As believers, our love must first be directed towards God, our creator, as He loved us first.

True love is not self-seeking; it is sacrificial and seeks the best for the beloved. Non-believers, without the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, cannot fully understand or demonstrate this Christ-like love since they lack the genuine love of God in their hearts. Therefore, marrying a non-believer will result in us being loved less than we deserve.

The best place to find a Christian partner is in your local church, where faith is practiced and shared. However, be mindful, that even within the church, there may be those who profess faith but do not produce the fruit of the Spirit. So, we must look for evidence of a genuine, saving faith before entering into a relationship.

This verse serves as a reminder to us about the importance of faith in our romantic relationships. Let's take a moment to meditate on this truth and ask God for wisdom and discernment when it comes to choosing a life partner.

Let's pray: "Lord, guide our hearts and minds in the matter of choosing a life partner. May we not be swayed by the charms of the world, but seek a partner who shares our love for You. Amen."

Now, I encourage you to reflect on this devotion. If you have any questions or would like to share your experiences or advice, please feel free to comment below. Remember, every believer's journey is unique, but we're all walking towards the same destination – life eternal with our Father in heaven.